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This Family’s Heartbreaking & Honest Obituary Will Change How You Think About Addiction

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Science has proven that addiction is not a choice but a deadly disease like any other. Think of it this way, some people are allergic to nuts, every single day one in ten of these people choose to eat nuts even though they could get an allergic reaction.

Yes they made a choice but do they deserve the suffering that comes later? Others choose to sunbathe even though they know it can cause cancer. They made the choice but should we shame them for having cancer?

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Madelyn Linsenmeir, those close to her called her“Maddie,”is one of these persons whose struggle with opioids lead to her untimely death. Maddie’s family published an obituary in her honor on“The Burlington Free Press.” – They sheds new light on what it’s like to watch someone you love battle addiction.

Their story urges others to practice compassion rather than pass judgment by looking beyond the addiction to the soul beneath that is suffering

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Maddie grew up in Burlington, Vermont. Her family describes her as a competitive person, light-hearted, loved to sing, dance, and swim.

Her family moved to Florida when she was 16, and in high school. She went to a party one day and for the first time tried OxyContin. This was the beginning of her life long relationship with opioids.

As time went by, Maddie became a single mom to son Ayden in 2014. Being a mother, she tried so hard to stay sober than she ever had in her life. She would take her son on long walks, sing to him, and swim together. She relapsed later on, lost custody of her son and spent the next two years trying to get sober.

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After her death, the family saidshe was much more than just an addict.

“To some, Maddie was just a junkie—when they saw her addiction they stopped seeing her. And what a loss for them. Because Maddie was hilarious, and warm, and fearless, and resilient. She could and would talk to anyone, and when you were in her company you wanted to stay.

In a system that seems to have hardened itself against addicts and is failing them every day, she befriended and delighted cops, social workers, public defenders, and doctors, who advocated for and believed in her till the end. She was adored as a daughter, sister, niece, cousin, friend, and mother, and being loved by Madelyn was a constantly astonishing gift.

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If you are reading this with judgment, educate yourself about this disease, because that is what it is. It is not a choice or a weakness. And chances are very good that someone you know is struggling with it, and that person needs and deserves your empathy and support.

We take comfort in knowing that Maddie is surrounded by light, free from the struggle that haunted her. We would have given anything for her to experience that freedom in this lifetime. Our grief over losing her is infinite. And now so is she.”

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Thefamily offered encouragement to addicts out there, reading Maddie’s obituary to get clean and stay that way.

“If you yourself are struggling from addiction, know that every breath is a fresh start. Know that hundreds of thousands of families who have lost someone to this disease are praying and rooting for you. Know that we believe with all our hearts that you can and will make it. It is never too late.”

Even in their grief, they saw an opportunity to help remove the social stigma and encourage empathy towards those who are fighting every single day.

Rest in peace, Maddie.

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11-Year Boy Wakes Up With Horrific Burns After Friend Pours Boiling Hot Water On Him

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11-Year Boy Wakes Up With Horrific Burns After Friend Pours Boiling Hot Water On Him

The hot water challenge, as it is popularly known on the internet, is a ‘game’ that should be stopped immediately  as it is leaving horrific affects where its tried. There are still a number of clips on Youtube of people playing the game, where the players challenge each other regarding who can take the boiling water on their skin or actually drink it!

Sadly, the craze has now spread to young children. Last week, while at a sleepover, an 11-year-old boy from Kentucky was left with horrific burns after his friends poured boiling water on him. The boy identified as Billy Oliver suffered second and third-degree burns, according to WYMT. He is currently undergoing treatment at the Cincinnati Burn Center.

Billy Oliver suffered 2nd and 3rd degree burns after a friend decided to pour boiling water over him during a sleepover as part of a Hot Water Challenge game sweeping the internet

Billy Oliver suffered 2nd and 3rd degree burns after a friend decided to pour boiling water over him during a sleepover as part of a Hot Water Challenge game sweeping the internet

”When I first heard about it I was amazed. I mean, I am familiar with various things that people do that aren’t very wise. To burn someone is to inflict such incredible pain and suffering on them and I don’t think that is the intent.”  Dr. Susan Pollack, pediatrician at Kentucky Children’s Hospital said.

Billy had gone to bed early before his friends, only to be shocked awake with immense pain when they poured the boiling water on him. ”On a one, well on a zero to ten scale how bad it hurt, it was a ten,” Billy told WYMT.

Billy further revealed that the challenge involved either ingesting boiling water or throwing it at someone else.

Read Also: Sleeping Girl Scalded by Boiling Water Makes an Incredible Recovery.

Billy’s sister Emily shared scary photos of her brother on Facebook to warn others about the dangerous new game. ”This is no joke if you are a parent please talk to your kids about this challenge my brother is in Cincinnati Children’s Hospital because of this and has to have surgery this challenge is not a game it’s dangerous,” she wrote.

According to The Metro, Angela Guth, the mother of Billy’s friend, didn’t take Billy to hospital after the incident. She now faces charges for second-degree criminal abuse and first-degree wanton endangerment.

2 years ago, 10 year old Wesley Smith from North Carolina spent several weeks undergoing surgery in the Winston Salem Burn Center after he and his step-brother attempted the Hot Water Challenge. His burns, WBTV reports, were scalding.

An 8 year old Ki’ari Pope from Boynton Beach, Florida, tragically died two years ago due to complications after drinking boiling water through a straw. Ki’ari’s cousin had dared her to perform this hazardous act to re-enact a YouTube video they’d seen on the hot water challenge, the Palm Beach Post reports.

Jamoneisha Merritt, an 11 year old from the Bronx, New York, was admitted to Harlem Hospital with second-degree burns to her face, neck, shoulders and chest, NY1 reports. The girl’s 12 year old friend had poured boiling water on her during a sleepover.

This is certainly a very dangerous game with the potential to cause severe and even life-threatening burns and parents need to be on high alert.

Please remember to share this article to spread awareness of this dangerous trend.

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7-year-old left with blisters and burns after getting henna tattoo on vacation

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No matter how hard parents try, sometimes it’s hard to keep their children out of harm’s way. Even though there’s nothing they can do to prevent their suffering, they still feel it more so than their own. Now imagine how much it hurts when the parent has unintentionally caused the pain, either by mistake or lack of knowledge.

One 7-year-old girl from United Kingdom may be scarred for the rest of her life after her father allowed her to get a black henna tattoo while on holiday in Egypt.

It all started when the mother of the family, 43-year-old Sylvia Gulliver had a gall bladder infection and was rushed to the hospital. Sylvia spent two days in the hospital and her young kids were on their best behavior.

Martins, their father, decided to reward his kids for behaving well while their mother was in hospital. He told the kids they could have a treat of their choice. Madison decided to get a black henna tattoo like the ones she had seen on other tourists.

With permission from her dad she had her hands tattoted at the hotel where the family was staying. Madison’s brother also got a henna tattoo but washed it off after experiencing irritation.

7-year-old Madison kept her tattoo only to feel it itching upon the family’s return home.

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It wasn’t long before the itching worsened causing a series of blisters. The irritation was caused by paraphenylenediamine (PPD), a chemical within the tattoo.

Things got pretty bad that she had to be taken to a specialist burns unit in hospital. She has since been left with scars that could remain for life.

“She is potentially scarred for life after getting a black henna tattoo,” said Martins, as per the Daily Mail.

“The tattoo was done in the hotel’s salon and they claim it’s not the henna and that it’s my daughter’s skin. She has blisters from her finger to her elbow and is in so much pain. We were entirely unaware of the dangers and I think they should warn of this in the brochures.

“I think it’s partly my fault because I didn’t know about it, but also the fault of the salon because they are using dangerous chemicals on children. We would have thought that the travel agents would have had concerns about this.

“We want to get the message out to other people.”

Poor little Madison was referred a scar management unit and will have to wear a pressure bandage for at least six months to limit the damage.

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Walmart Shopper Filmed Gargling Mouthwash, Spitting It Into Bottle And Putting It Back On Shelf

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Walmart Shopper Filmed Gargling Mouthwash, Spitting It Into Bottle And Putting It Back On Shelf

Just last week, the internet went wild with fury when a video surfaced showing a woman licking tubs of ice cream and putting them back on the shelves for other shoppers to buy.  Following the order, police issued a statement revealing they had identified the culprit in question. According to CBS News, if the woman is convicted she would be facing a second-degree felony tampering with a consumer product, and could face between two and 22 years in prison.

Now, yet another new video has hit the web. This time, it shows a Walmart shopper gargling mouthwash before spitting it back into the bottle and putting it back on the shelf.

Walmart Shopper Filmed Gargling Mouthwash, Spitting It Into Bottle And Putting It Back On Shelf

Walmart Shopper Filmed Gargling Mouthwash, Spitting It Into Bottle And Putting It Back On Shelf

In the video clip, ‘Bameron Nicole Smith’ can be heard saying, “Girl, it has been one musty f**king morning.” The woman then swills the mouthwash in her mouth, then exclaims, “Mmm, nice and minty and fresh. Thank you guys.”

The original video was uploaded to Twitter on July 5 captioned, “You b**ches with no oral hygiene could take a hint.”

The clip quickly went viral and evoked a storm of backlash from viewers all over the world.

Read Also: Kid was taken to ER – Parents warn others after they find out what he had eaten.

Talking to the MailOnline Walmart released a statement saying, “We are investigating this incident. If someone tampers with a product and leaves it on the shelf, we will work with law enforcement to identify and prosecute those found responsible to the fullest extent of the law.”

Later on, Smith posted another tweet in which she can be seen holding up a receipt from the store – implying that she did buy the mouthwash she gargled after filming the video.

Hopefully, the truth comes out and the proper steps taken to ensure this new distasteful trend.

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