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Doctor advised mom to terminate pregnancy, she refuses—2 years later she sends the doctor a letter


In the heart of every mother is a love that knows no bounds, a love that sees beyond the challenges to the joy that a child brings. This is a story of such love, the kind that is strong and unyielding in the face of tough choices.

Let’s dive into the heartwarming tale…

When you’re expecting a baby, all you wish for is a healthy pregnancy and a happy baby. And that’s exactly what a young woman hoped for. But life has its twists and turns, and during her check-ups, this young mother-to-be got news that her baby would be special in a way not everyone understands. Her unborn baby, the doctors said, had Down syndrome. They suggested that maybe she shouldn’t have her baby. But this mother, she didn’t see her baby any different from any other.

Photo Courtesy: Courtney Williams Baker

Courtney Williams Baker is this brave mother’s name, and Emersyn is her little girl, who happens to have Down syndrome. Despite the doctors’ advice to end the pregnancy, Courtney and her husband chose hope and life.

In a heartfelt letter she wrote in 2016, when Emersyn was just two years old, Courtney opened up about her journey. She told a story of her friend who also had a baby with Down syndrome, sharing how this friend’s doctor celebrated the baby’s perfection before and after birth. This story struck Courtney deeply because it was so different from her own experience.

Photo Courtesy: Courtney Williams Baker

She wrote: “I wish you would have been that doctor. I came to you during the most difficult time in my life, I was terrified, anxious and in complete despair. I didn’t know the truth yet about my baby, and that’s what I desperately needed from you. But instead of support and encouragement, you suggested we terminate our child. I told you her name, and you asked us again if we understood how low our quality of life would be with a child with Down syndrome. You suggested we reconsider our decision to continue the pregnancy.

Courtney’s letter revealed the pain of not having been met with the same kindness during her own pregnancy. She wrote about the fear and despair she felt, and how she wished her doctor had offered the support she so desperately needed. Instead of encouragement, the doctor had only seen the Down syndrome, not the little girl, not Emersyn.

Photo Courtesy: Courtney Williams Baker

Courtney confessed that each doctor’s visit was a heavy weight, a time that reminded her of the doctor’s failure to see her baby as perfect. But Emersyn, she was perfect in her mother’s eyes.

This little girl, Emersyn, changed everything for Courtney. With every giggle, every hug, and every kiss, Emersyn brought endless joy and love into their lives. She became a beacon of hope, teaching everyone around her about the true essence of beauty and love.

Emersyn’s story, told by her mother, isn’t just a story about the challenges of raising a child with Down syndrome. It’s a celebration of life, a reminder of the preciousness of every child, and a powerful testament to a mother’s love. Courtney and Emersyn’s journey together shows us that sometimes, the unexpected paths lead to the most beautiful destinations, filled with laughter, love, and the purest joy.